Monday, May 31, 2010

Feed My Starving Children- Volunteers Needed



From Mike Markcity-
Attention Connect Group Members, Champions, Leaders, and Guests. This Wednesday, June 2nd, Flamingo will once again be partnering with Feed My Starving Children to prepare and provide meals to Haiti. However, to make this event run smoothly and successfully, we need 10-12 volunteers to help set-up on Tuesday, June 1st from 7pm - 9pm. We will also need 10-12 volunteers to help tear-down after the event on Wednesday, June 2nd from 6:30pm - 8:30pm. Volunteers will be working with Feed My Starving Children staff and should meet at Flamingo Road Church in front of theRUSH building.

If you can serve Flamingo and volunteer to help with either of these times, please click on the links below.

Set-up Team (Tuesday, June 1st 7pm - 9pm)
http://www.churchteams.com/Login.asp?oID=6624&sID=flamingo&limit=Y&page=MemberSelectJoin.asp?GroupID=75545&JoinGroupBypassSearchOption=specificgroup

Tear-down Team (Wednesday, June 2nd 6:30pm - 8:30pm)
http://www.churchteams.com/Login.asp?oID=6624&sID=flamingo&limit=Y&page=MemberSelectJoin.asp?GroupID=75546&JoinGroupBypassSearchOption=specificgroup

Thank you for participating in this mission outreach event.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Sponsor A Student To Grow in Christ This Summer

Please note this week's connect group challenge:

When something is a priority in our lives, we invest in it. We commit to it. We devote our time, effort, energy, thoughts and money to it. Let’s challenge ourselves to invest in saving lost lambs. Take a connect group offering to go toward sponsoring a RUSH camp student. Say a quick prayer here and now and invest. Your connect group leader will offer the collection on behalf of the group- be it $5 or $5000. Something is more than nothing, and something can add up to sponsoring a student and changing his/her life for the Lord. Hallelujah!

you can download the entire study [from NING] that goes with this challenge and use as a tool in your group.

In Him

Thursday, May 27, 2010

The Peace That Passes Understanding

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to everyone. The Lord is near. Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:4-7


When we pray, or supplicate, we are humbly and earnestly petitioning to God. We are to do this for everything. With this comes reliance. As we are earnestly petitioning Him for more and more in our lives, we are increasingly relying on Him. Thus, when we make our requests known to Him in everything, we are relying on him completely. We add thanksgiving to this mix, remembering all He has done and all that He can and will do. This gives us peace. When we are completely reliant on and appreciative of God, we trust Him and that gives us the peace that passes all understanding.

Having peace does not mean that nothing bad will happen. Having this peace comes from trusting God- that He will take care of you- that you have laid all your worries at His feet and He will take control of them. Now, even when bad things happen, you can look at it with a new perspective- of calm, quiet, peace.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

The Law of Intuition

Law #8 of John Maxwell's The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership is:

The Law Intuition: Leaders Evaluate Everything with a Leadership Bias

This, Maxwell notes, is the most difficult of the laws to teach. He notes that natural leaders get it instantly, learned leaders get it eventually and non-leaders never get it. The Law of Intuition deals with more than facts…but also many intangibles [eg employee morale, organizational momentum, relational dynamics]. We all possess intuition. Everyone has some level of intuition in the area of his/her strength. This intuition can be nurtured and developed and applied in the area of leadership.

How Leaders Think
Intuition comes from the combination of natural ability [which comes in a person’s area of strength] and learned strengths.
1. Leaders are readers of their situation: Leaders can “smell” things in the organization. They can sense people’s attitudes and chemistry among teams. “Natural ability and learned skills create an informed intuition that makes leadership issues jump out at leaders.
2. Leaders are readers of trends: Followers focus on current goals/tasks; managers focus on efficiency and effectiveness; leaders take a broader view, discerning where the organization has been and where it is going.
3. Leaders are readers of their resources: They focus on mobilizing people and leveraging resources to achieve goals vs relying on their own individual efforts.
4. Leaders are readers of people: This may be the most important intuitive skill for leaders to develop, since any and everything a leader does involves other people.
5. Leaders are readers of themselves: A leader has to be sincere about self-analysis: strengths, weaknesses and mind set. Leaders can hurt their organization when they become self-centered, pessimistic or rigid because they may end up believing that they cannot or should not change.


Three Levels of Leadership
1. Those who naturally understand leadership: These people instinctively understand people and know how to move them from A to B. even as kids, these are the ones leading on the playground
2. Those who can be nurtured to understand leadership: Most people fall into this category. Those in this category usually have good people skills and are teachable. If they work to develop their leadership and intuition, they can.
3. Those who will never understand leadership: Occasionally, there are people with no leadership skills and no interest in developing them.

Applying the Law of Intuition to Your Life
1. You must be willing to trust your intuition. First, determine your strongest natural talent. Second, act on/use that talent. Pay attention to whether and when you know something is ‘right’ or when you are ‘on’. Don your instincts betray you? When? Why? Get to know your intuition ability in areas where you are strong before you develop it further in leadership.
2. Reading people is on of the most important leadership abilities. How would you rate yourself? Can you sense when others are happy, upset, confused, mad? Do you anticipate what others are thinking? You can improve in this area by reading relationship books, engaging others more in conversation and becoming a people watcher.
3. Train yourself to think in terms of mobilizing people and harnessing resources. Imagine how you can accomplish current goals and projects without doing any of the work yourself. You may want to wrist these down and keep them handy:
• Who is the best person to take this on?
• What resources do we possess that can help us?
• What will this take financially?
• How can I encourage my team to achieve success?


Reference:
Maxwell, John. The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Chapter 8- The Law of Intuition. Thomas Nelson, Nashville, TN; 2007

Monday, May 24, 2010

Men's Movie Night This Wednesday at Cooper City

The Band of Brothers Connect Group is hosting a free Men's Movie Night this Wednesday at Flamingo Road Church, Cooper City Campus. The Band of Brothers wanted to provide all Flamingo Men with a night out, some great fellowship, and an awesome movie. They will be providing the movie, popcorn, and soda.

When: Wednesday, May 26th
Where: Flamingo Road Church, Cooper City Campus, 12401 Stirling Rd., Room 126
Time: 7:00pm
Cost: Free

So they can provide appropriate seating and refreshments for all the men who attend, they would greatly appreciate it if men would pre-register their intended attendance by "joining" the event.

Please click the link below to join the Men's Movie Night at Cooper City group and add your information.

Join the Mens Movie Night at Cooper City group


Connect Group Leaders and Champions, please share this information with your group members. It's time for the men at Flamingo to get "fired-up"! For more information about this event, please contact Rudy Bello at rbello57@aol.com or call 954-415-8988.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Flamingo is Seeking Hosts for the Summer

Do you have an extra room in your home? Can you host a Flamingo Road Church intern this summer?

We are looking for people who have an extra room in their home and could host a visiting college student who will be interning with our Worship Team at Flamingo this summer. The interns are current students at Liberty University, a Christian university in Lynchburg, Va. The student interns will be arriving in South Florida Saturday, May 29th and will returning to Liberty University on August 8th. As a host, you will be providing a room for sleeping accommodations and perhaps an occasional meal. Your host student will be eating most of his/her meals at the church and will be spending considerable time at the church in Flamingo's intern program. If you can assist us by serving as a host, please respond as soon as possible to Danny Prada at prada.danny@yahoo.com or call 954-643-3746.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Giving

On the first day of every week, each one of you should set aside a sum of money in keeping with his income, saving it up, so that when I come no collections will have to be made.-1 Corinthians 16:2

Jesus Christ said more about money than about any other single thing because, when it comes to a man's real nature, money is of first importance. Money is an exact index to a man's true character. All through Scripture there is an intimate correlation between the development of a man's character and how he handles his money.
-Richard C. Halverson

Honoring Your Church Leaders

(re-publish of the blog-post from Pastor Craig Groeschel, LifeChurch.tv, May 19, 2010)

1 Timothy 5:17 says, “The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.”

Remember, to dishonor is to treat as common or ordinary. To honor is to highly esteem, to build up.

I remember a time when a church asked me to consult with them. For many years, they had been in decline. I was happy to meet with their pastor and elders to hear their story.

Each time the pastor spoke, the elders talked over him and brushed off his comments as meaningless. The longer the meeting carried on, the more obvious their problem became to me.

When they asked me what I thought, I’m sure they expected me to tell them to change the style of their service or add a Saturday night service, etc.

Instead, I told them that their number one problem was that they were dishonoring their pastor. Immediately, the elders became defensive. It wasn’t until I quoted their words and demonstrated what they had done that they realized their lack of honor.

I explained that I didn’t expect God to bless their church until they trusted and believed in the one God had put there to lead them. On the spot, they sincerely repented to their pastor. Four years later, this church has almost doubled in size.

Showing honor obviously isn’t the key to growth. But a lack of honor certainly doesn’t help. As my church honors me as the God-appointed leader, I feel a deeper sense of urgency to hear from God and do what pleases Him.


Wednesday, May 19, 2010

The 23rd Psalm

The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures;
He leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul;
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness
For His name's sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of shadow of death,
I will fear no evil;
For Thou are with me;
Thy rod and Thy staff, they will comfort me.
He prepareth a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
He anointeth my head with oil;
My cup runeth over.
Surely, His goodness and mercy shall follow me
All the days of my life;
And I shall dwell in the house of the Lord
Forever.
Amen

Thank You, Lord!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Character

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
Martin Luther King, Jr.

How hard is it to do the right thing when everything is going right?
It's like winning a trophy just for participating.
Is this what defines our character?

Brothers and sisters, do not be weary in doing what is right.
2 Thessalonians 3:13

-In Him.

[21 Irrefutable Laws to resume next week]

Monday, May 17, 2010

Tearing Down Walls... We Need Your Help!

A request from Pastor Ricky...
Team: this weekend we have is Commitment weekend and we have a huge response moment involving the bricks that we have around the stages. We need your help the next 3 nights to paint 5 thousand bricks. thats right! 5 thousand bricks. starting TONIGHT, for the next 3 nights we will need the cooperation of your teams to helps us paint bricks. we will meet on the East/Flamingo side of the building (outside on the sidewalk). I need you to invite at lease 8 people from your ministries to come out starting TONIGHT. they will receive instructions once they get there. this is a great team building opportunity for you so make sure you participate at lease one night.

EVERY night for the next 3 nights 6-10pm.

Plse email me: ricky.garcia@flamingoroad.org and let me know who you can get out there. Let me know if you have any questions or concerns. thank you

ricky

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Important Message from Pastor Lili - Team Meeting May 19th

Connect Mtg 5/19/10 from FRC on Vimeo.

Connection Team Meeting for all CG Leaders, Champions, Connection Center Connectors, and DOM's this Wednesday, May 19th, 7:00pm in the Cooper City auditorium. This is an opportunity for our S. Florida Connection Team to get together and dream, pray, talk, and collaborate. Learn what is on the radar for our Connect Team this month, this summer and the fall! Please make plans to attend this 1 hour meeting.

Friday, May 14, 2010

A Word From the Lord

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
-Matthew 11:28-30

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Do Not Worry

How much faith do we really have?
One of the things that most exposes our humanity is the struggle we have not to worry.
How do we truly lay our burdens on Him?
And, how do we balance honestly telling Him our heart and what we fear...with not worrying and not being afraid.
For, as much as we righteously try not to worry...how many of us do?
Some of us may worry more or less than others...
But, who do you know with the faith of even a mustard seed?

In this brokenness- He is glorified
In this weakness- it is His strength that endures.
Thank You!

Matthew Chapter 6:
25‘Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink,* or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27And can any of you by worrying add a single hour to your span of life?* 28And why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they neither toil nor spin, 29yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not clothed like one of these. 30But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31Therefore do not worry, saying, “What will we eat?” or “What will we drink?” or “What will we wear?” 32For it is the Gentiles who strive for all these things; and indeed your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33But strive first for the kingdom of God* and his* righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
34 ‘So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today.

-In Him

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Influence

There have been meetings of only a moment which have left impressions for life ...for eternity. No one can understand that mysterious thing we call ‘influence’ ...yet everyone of us continually exerts influence, either to heal, to bless, to leave marks of beauty; or to wound, to hurt, to poison, to stain other lives.
-JB Miller

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Texting Through Churchteams

Tired of having your emails ignored ? Did you know that you can quickly and easily send a text message to every member in your group through Churchteams?

Last weekend, we had to change our meeting location 30 min prior to the meeting. The Challenge: How do we quickly notify all our members, most of whom where still in church service? The Solution: Mass text messaging through Churchteams!

To send a text message to all your members, log into Churchteams, and select your group using the Browse Connect Groups option. Scrolling to the bottom of your list of group members, you will see several hyperlinks. Select the link that says, "Text Message the Group." Simple, huh? Note: Churchteams lets you know how many members are currently registered to receive text messages. Churchteams will only send a text message if your member has included his/her mobile telephone number AND the name of his/her mobile carrier. Without both pieces of information entered, a member cannot receive texts through Churchteams. In reviewing your list of members, if you see that the member's mobile number is "bold", then that member has supplied his/her carrier information and is ready to receive text messages from Churchteams.

So, encourage your members to complete this information in their profile so they may be update with important class information via text. Congratulations. One of your leadership communication tasks has just gotten WAY easier!

Thursday, May 6, 2010

A Quote For Today

A Godly leader ... finds strength by realizing his weakness
finds authority by being under authority
finds direction by laying down his plans
finds vision by seeing the needs of others
finds credibility by being an example
finds loyalty by expressing compassion
finds honor by being faithful
finds greatness by being a servant
-Roy Lessin

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Talk-2-Ten

This month is a-MAY-zing, and we have lots and lots going on at Flamingo in the Connection Ministry.... Chic-fil-a Leadercast, Family Dedication, Mother's Day Weekend, Viva Women, and Viva Men. Also, during our Jericho series and every weekend during the month of May, we will be have our Next Step partnership class!

At one of our last Connection Director Meetings, Barby suggested that all our Connect Group Leaders and Champions should have a "Talk-2-Ten" philosophy each weekend. Translation: As Leaders, we should make an effort to talk to 10 new people each week and at every event. What a great idea! We loved it! So, as we chase after our 50-100-150 dream and try to connect as many people as possible, let's do it! Let's challenge each other to Talk-2-Ten starting this weekend! Welcome 10 new people (people you don't know) to Flamingo. Ask them if they are in a Connect Group. Invite them to attend Viva! Talk to 10 new people and watch God move and change lives!

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

The Law Of Respect

Law #7 of John Maxwell's The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership is:

The Law Respect: People Naturally Follow Leaders Stronger Than Themselves

This law says that people don’t follow others by accident. People tend to follow leaders stronger than themselves. When a group with various people comes together, the leaders in the group with initially go their own way. Soon, people start to change direction to follow the strongest leader, until ultimately they are all going in the same direction, following the strongest leader. The other strong leaders will either follow the strongest one, or leave and pursue their own goals.

Maxwell lists the top 6 ways that leaders gain others’ respect:

1. Natural Leadership Ability: Some people are born with more natural ability than others. But, anyone can learn and grow and become a better leader.

2. Respect For Others: “When leaders respect others, especially for those with less power than they have, they gain the respect of others. When people respect you as a person, they admire you; when they respect you as a friend, they love you; when they respect you as a leader, they follow you.”

3. Courage: “Good leaders do what’s right, even at the risk of failure, in the face of great danger and under the brunt of relentless criticism…courage gives followers hope.”

4. Success: “People are naturally drawn to success and respect accomplishments…. It’s hard to argue with a good track record.”

5. Loyalty: Maxwell talks about how loyalty is lacking today. People change jobs so often today. It seems rare for people to stick with something. “when leaders stick with the team until the job is done, remain loyal to the organization when the going gets rough, and look out for followers even when it hurts them, followers respect them and their actions.”

6. Value Added To Others: This may be the greatest source of respect –the dedication to adding value to others.

Applying the Law of Respect to Your Life

  1. Gauge your leadership level by considering your followers’ response to the last time you asked them to make a commitment to something you were leading or to change something they were doing. How readily did they comply?
  2. Evaluate yourself from 1 [low] to 10 [high] for each of the following leadership qualities and get your ‘leadership number.’ In one sentence for each, write a practice, habit or goal to help you improve in that area. Spend a month on each to make it part of your life:
    1. Leadership ability[natural ability]
    2. Respect for others
    3. Courage
    4. Success record
    5. Loyalty
    6. Value added to others
  3. If you have the courage, ask those closest to you what they respect most about you and in which areas you need to grow. Then commit to improve based on their honest feedback.

Reference:

Maxwell, John. The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Chapter 7- The Law of Respect.. Thomas Nelson, Nashville, TN; 2007